How to handle things?

I still feel down right now and i try my best to overcome my sadness. What should we do when we are not in da bez mood?hm..let see:
1) ring our friend & pour our heart out (will they listen 2 us?..huhu..)
2) check our fs & post out a pathethic bulletin..
3) go to nearest hill and shout out loud ( ppl say it a good theraphy,is it?)
4) shopping!
5) job down in the diary/ journal how much u hate ur life
6) yell at every1 that u bump..=D
7) stay in our bedroom and listening to slow- pathetic music!..yikes!

what we really shld do actually?..i dont hv any idea on tt!..pheaw..

judging others

My life for this week is suck and i guess, it will continue be that way until the weeken*sob,sob*.I really dont get it, why people tend to easily judge us? I've been judge or shld i said accused xde perasaan, x fikirkn psl org lain, cpt marah, pentingkn kwn..u juz name it, i got it.It really hurt to hear poeple saying those accusation to u. they dont even know how we really feel inside..kenapa sng sgt2 nk nilai org?..

A Man Called Daddy

While I was waiting for my fiance at the bus stand yesterday, there was a lorry stopped in front of me. The driver of that lorry was a chinese old man and he looked totally tired.Then,the driver stepped out from the lorry and opened the passenger's door and wiped out it seats with a shirt that he hang at his own seat.After that, he walked to the school and not long after that, I saw him walking with a little girl whose chatting happily to him.He looked extremely tired to me but then, he still managed to act happily in front of that little girl.I felt touched and all of sudden, it makes me realized the power of father's love.There was a time also, when I was at the ATM machine and an old chinese guy came up to the man behind me and he asked for a favour. That chinese guy wanted to send money to his daughter but as you guys know, BSN does not have any cash- machine and furthurmore, it was almost 9 pm.He just need somebody to transfer RM50 to his daughter's account and he will give RM50 cash back. At first, the man behind me refused to help and after they talked, he agreed. I wonder, if the daughter knows that her dad pleaded to others to bank in money to her,what would she feel?..For me personally, when I saw that old guy's condition, i felt liked all of the children in this world should cherish their parents and must try to be the best kids that they can as our parents have gone through lots of hardship just to raise us up and they never complaint about it..I really miss my parents right now!!!

A bad day?

I went to Jabatan Agama Ipoh Perak today along with my fiance as we need to get the HIV test forms and some other related forms that we need to fill up for our wedding.On my way to JAIP,he asked me,"nape x pakai tudung?"..i just dont know what to say as i left my home hurriedly.Then,when he went to get the forms,I just waited for him outside the room as there is a notice on the door that says,"Diharap anda berpakaian kemas& menutup aurat sewaktu berurusan".I felt so shamed of myself at that time as all the people passes by kinda gave me 'the look' but I need to act cool in front of my fiance or else he will utter his famous words,"tu lah, degil sangat"..After we got all the forms,we went to his motocycle and surprisedly, my is helmet gone.I really dont understand why on earth do people want to stel a helmet?What were he thinking?gosh..because of that, I had to wait for my fiance to find a new helmet for me.Poor him, he searched all over the Ipoh town for it and I had to wait foe him for almost an hour at the bus stand in front of a chinese school.Why do people steal?why cant they just work if they want to get something?..

petrol naik?

i was on my way for dinner around 9pm and i was surprised to see a long queue kt smue petrol station around ipoh ni.smue org berebut2 nk isi minyak smpi kn ade penunggang motosikal yg siap bwk botol utk bli minyak..i rasa kesian plak kt smue driver2 nih..(thankfully i dont drive yet)..klu bg yg mampu tu, x pe lh gak tp bg yg gaji ciput camne?..cian tau..dh lh skrg nih harga brg smue naik,skrg ni petrol plak naik..pheaw,what's next?..ape2 pon, i really hope tt all of this crisis will end soon..amin..

Arranged Marriage..still exist?

I was attending a wedding last weekend at Ukay Perdana Club with my fiance.Ada 2 pasangan pengantin bersanding( brothers) & salah seorang drpd pengantin perempuan tu is my sister- in- law 2b.pe yg special ny psl ceremony nih bagi linda d sbb kn leh kisah pengantin tu sendiri.
i was surprised when i've been told tt, one of da couple di jodohkn leh parents.sedangkn they have their own choices..but still, i respect kt dieorg nih sbb still hormatkn parents dieorg & accept the plan.tp tu lh, i bleh nmpk yg dieorg x mesra..yg cian nye, sorg tu sibok je ngn telefon kt tgn, bersms x lyn couple. duduk plak jauh2 wtu kt umah..smpi kn mak pengantin tu tegor ank die " nape buat ank org cam2?nape x lyn?"..for me, personally i think tt marriage is sacred & shld be keep well by every1. i think i know tt pengantin pompuan tu msT terasa haT sbb x d lyn tp kn, if only they give it a try who knows tt they can get along?..juz give it a time..minta2 lh d jauh kn dr benda mcm ni..amin..semoga couple ni akn berbahagia ke ank cucu..for parents out there, i really think tt, kalau nk jodohkn ank pun, biarl atas kerelaan dieorg sendiri..kang nnT x happy camne?..